LOL.. what a great topic to start with. What are friends? Tell me what are friends for? Have you ever imagine friends can be a heap of trash, a precious gift or something where you buy and throw away after use?
As days goes by. Do you consider friends around you as really friends. AND I MEAN REAL FRIENDS, as in really labelled as the word "Friends". It feels so degrading day by day for me to label my friends as "friends" except for the exceptional few which I feel are really my friends. How do you define your friends? Well, I judge my own friends by character, attitude, responsibility & etc.. Theres too many ways and own options to judge someone. There are friends who treat others like a heap of junk. There are friends who treat others like a precious gift. Lastly, there are friends who treat others like something where you buy and throw away after use. Well, I have come across with friends or people who are like this. Man... this doesnt apply to me only and I believe others also have come across the same situation. Personally, as a Aquarius, I choose my friends wisely. Well, sadly Aquarians are like this due to a fact to certain extent. Learn to accept people is the most important thing in life, if you cant means you are not fit to label yourself as who you are as you are not even ready for changes to come by anytime and anywhere. Never think too highly of yourself & think more before you speak, it will never portray a good image of oneself. Most important of all, always do self reflection or soul searching whenever anything goes wrong. Well, this is what I believe as in a friend. Dont ever treat a friend for granted or give up on them unless he/she is really of no hope or useless. Well, apparently & sadly, I do have friends who are like this. Seriously, I feel sad for them. But hell, Why must i be? Im not them as thats their own life, they are for who they are, I am for who I am. Everyone i believe need a goal and need to plan a path in life. People without one will definitely lead themselves to a bottomless pit. A neverending pit where you will fall continously without reaching the ground, its equal to someone wandering so freely with so much freedom. Not knowing where to go, going in circles and back to square one. Its just plain stupid. If friends are worth helping or can be helped, Ill definitely offer a helping hand without a doubt.
Well, sometimes i really wonder, does really helping someone gain anything good in return?? Do people or friends appreciate it? Do people or friends know the value in helping? Or just a "Thank You" is just more than enough to satisfy one for giving a helping hand. Maybe it really does because humans find it really satisfied being thanked for something being done.I'm beginning to have doubts of being a too kind person. It seems it doesnt benefit much, neither do i want to benefit from anyone. It just doesnt show the returns that one would get for being too kind or helpful.
Lastly, would words of advise from someone really help someone else? Or we human beings are really just stubborn or too stubborn to get it into our own brains to listen?Are we just pretending we are doing it the right way although die die we know it is still wrong? As for me i would evaluate the advise given and think whether my own way is right or wrong, or it is alright for me to follow the advise. Human mind is just somehow too complicated to understand. Is best leave it to oneself to put it into good use & in the right way.
